GRIEVING OURSELVES HOME

with Chaya Leia Aronson, Kaitlyn Cronin & Mirna McWilliams

Earthdance Creative Living Project

November 6th - 9th, 2025

GRIEVING OURSELVES HOME

with Chaya Leia Aronson, Kaitlyn Cronin & Mirna McWilliams

Earthdance Creative Living Project

November 6th - 9th, 2025

Join us for 3 days & 3 nights IN PERSON for a deep dive exploration of grief through embodiment, song and ritual.

Co-Created by: Chaya Leia Aronson, Kaitlyn Cronin & Mirna McWilliams

with Guest Musicians James Bird Portal & Charlotte Althaea Collins

We do not grieve to feel better. We grieve to feel more alive.

It is our honor and pleasure to continue the lineage we are building here at Earthdance, and offer our second 3 day grief ceremony.

Our greatest desire in hold these spaces is to create sacred space to grieve in community, with the central premises that all grief is a sacred expression of our love, that all of our griefs belong, and that our grief is meant to be witnessed and held.

Join us for 3 days & 3 nights IN PERSON for a deep dive exploration of grief through embodiment song and ritual. We will have a one full day Saturday option as well. 

With Love,

Chaya Leia Aronson, Kaitlyn Cronin & Mirna McWilliams

Grieving Ourselves Home

In person offering November 6th - 9th, 2025

In these heartbreaking times, grieving together is essential. The individualism and isolation our of culture creates numbness, apathy, and overwhelm. When we come together to grieve, we clarify our vision and purpose in this time of great change. We remember how to come home to self and the lost notion of community. 

We invite you to join us for three days and nights of tending the sacred waters of our e-motions, through ritual, movement, and song. We gather at Earthdance, a beloved place to many and has become home to a lineage of ever-evolving grief work.

Coming together to move, sing, and feel has great power to connect us more deeply to our wholeness and purpose, opening the door to the unique and necessary ways our Soul can contribute to healing on this planet.

If we think of grief as an expression of our love, we remember that grief is one powerful facet of the human experience, inextricably woven with growth, play, pleasure and joy. Rage might arise too. If grief is an expression of love, then rage is an expressed need for a boundary. So let us come together and stoke the sacred fire of our longing, belonging, grief, rage, repressed resentment, hope, fear, and so much more. 

 

In our time together we will explore and create:

  • Opening Ceremony 🕯️ Web Weaving Ritual
  • Embodied pelvic movement and breath practices to source and move stagnant energy from our centers
  • Song as a channel for emotional release and tether to the sacred
  • Relational work with our human and other-than-human kin
  • Dance and Authentic Movement
  • Death and Chocolate Ritual
  • Erotic Innocence RItual *
  • Day-long grief ritual that will be open to the wider community
  • The emergent magic created through our open hearts

*This will NOT include erotic connection with self or other. It is a place to reclaim what is lost when our erotic parts are shamed or violated as children.

ATTENDANCE OPTIONS

There is an option to attend for the entire weekend, and an option to come for a single day on Saturday, which will be a full day long grief ritual.

Kaitlyn Cronin and Mirna McWilliams will co-facilitate this full weekend with Chaya, and Charlotte Althaea Collins and James Bird will support the music and song aspect of the full day ritual on Saturday.

A note about Earthdance:

Earthdance resides in the hills of Western Massachusetts, native to the Nipmuc, Pocumtuc and Wabanaki tribes. The center has held many intimate, beautiful gatherings over a number of years. The site includes beautiful hiking trails, two beautiful movement and ritual studios and a wood-fired sauna, facing a quarry. It is a sister companion to Earthdance, a contact improvisation center next door. It is a sacred place for me and my family, and I am excited to share it in a deep beautiful dive with you.

The retreat includes:

  • Food: One meal on Thursday, three meals on Friday and Saturday and two meals on Sunday. The chef is incredibly talented so these meals will be divine.
  • Single day Saturday participation includes lunch and dinner that day.
  • Use of the sauna
  • A bed in the shared dormitory
  • Access to hiking the land

Scholarship Application deadline is January 20th. Contact us to apply.

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Full Weekend

Thursday, November 6th
3:00 pm Arrival begins
6:00 pm Dinner
7:30 pm Grief Mandala

Friday, November 7th
8:30 am  Breakfast
9:30 am  Embodied practices to awaken and prime us
11:30 am Authentic relating and authentic movement
1:00 pm  Lunch
3:00 pm  Herbs for grieving // Death and Chocolate Grief Ritual
6:00 pm Dinner
7:30 pm Fire & Song Circle

Saturday, November 8th
Full Day Grief and Song RItual (More details »)
Participants of the full weekend will support in the preparation and holding of the full day ritual. All will have space to grieve.

Sunday, November 9th
8:30 am Breakfast
9:30 am Integration Circle
10:30 am Remember who you are Ancestor Dance
12:00 pm Logistics and closure
1:00 pm Lunch and Final clean
3:00 pm Till next time!

 

Saturday, November, 8th - One Day Option

This day will be a full day Community Grief and Song Circle. We have been hosting these with consistency at Earthdance for a long time now, and the community around this practice is building. We are delighted to offer a day long option, to come and be in ceremony, song and ritual for a full day together, held within the sweet container of the weekend long retreat.

Charlotte Althaea Collins will join us for this full day option, and offer her love, wisdom and musical accompaniment.

Lunch, Dinner and Sauna Access are included in this option.

Reach out with any questions!

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Meet your Hosts

Chaya Aronson

Chaya Leia Aronson, RN BSN

Chaya Leia Aronson, RN BSN has been apprenticing with the womb for nearly 20 years, and has great passion for supporting women / womb bearers to connect to health, pleasure and vitality and can be found mothering, communing with flowers and dancing in her free time. Working with wombs and mothering have been some of her greatest teachers about grief. She has also been blessed to learn from incredible teachers in her life, including Rosita Arvigo, Tami Kent, ALisa Starkweather, Sheri Winston and Zahava Griss. In grief work, she is influenced by the Dagara teachings of Sobunfu Some.

Kaitlyn Cronin

Kaitlyn Cronin

Kaitlyn Cronin's work lives in the intersection of mycology, creativity, spirituality and the reintegration of ritual to sanctify potent life transitions. She is a certified death doula and feels pulled to thresholds, transitions and the in-between spaces.

With the mycelial web as her greatest teacher and creation as her devotional practice, Kaitlyn weaves stories through visual art and immersive experience; embedding us into our ecosystems and sparking a remembrance of our interstitial and unique place in the expansive web of life.

Meet the Musicians

Mirna McWilliams

Mirna McWilliams

Mirna McWilliams is a ritualist, musician, and facilitator. She supports individuals and groups in tending grief, soul, and the sacred through song, ceremony, and shared presence. Her work is rooted in relationship—to land, to lineage, and to mystery. Guided by a deep love of beauty, she carries songs and practices that invite remembrance, reverence, and repair.
Devoted to the long work of reweaving village, she offers her life in service to the restoration of belonging—among people, and between people and the living world. She is blessed to live in community in the ancient Appalachian mountains near Asheville, NC where her days are filled by the love of tobacco, corn, the flowers, and the luscious waters.

Charlotte Althaea Collins

Charlotte "Althaea" Collins

Charlotte "Althaea" Collins

violinist, violist, singer/songwriter, teacher, and healer guiding people into direct, communal, and transformational encounters with music. She is passionate about bringing audiences, clients, and students into aliveness and authenticity through music. Her offerings and projects include holistic classical concerts, sound healing journeys, vocal improvisation workshops & song circles, and compositional sound projects for dance, film, and podcasts. She is currently working on her first full album of original music, titled Welcome Home. Malin currently serves as the Viola Instructor at Amherst College and lives in Northampton, MA. 

James Bird

James Bird

James Bird is a poet/musician/bard local to Western Massachusetts. A live musician at heart, he has shared his ethereal folk music in a diversity of spaces like festivals, farmer’s markets, funerals, wedding ceremonies, ecstatic dances and grief rituals. Myth is a central theme in Bird’s music, using ancient stories to speak to the timeless human experiences of love, loss, friendship, mystery, death and rebirth.

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